• Sheryl and Dan Malin

RECIPE TO HAPPINESS

Hello All,

Its Monday again and Dan and my 28th day of hunkering down.



Our Easter was very eventful, we woke up to watching Joel Osteen. Every time I listen to his message it gives me hope and I feel thankful.


HOPE IS ALIVE


I was able to go on zoom and see and talk to my mom. She was modeling her masks that she made and was able to face time with my daughter, son-in-law and grandson. He was showing me the wooden eggs that they had painted and the Legos that the Easter bunny brought him. The rest of the day calling family members to wish them a Happy Easter.


We were not like most people; I didn’t make a traditional Easter dinner this year. I decided since I have lots of vegetables delivered this week from Misfits to make something around vegetables. Dan has been reminding me that he likes curry foods and in the near future we will look for a restaurant in our area that delivers curry foods. So, I decided to saute mixed vegetables with rice and add a sauce like curry. I also made sweet potatoes with a mixed salad. This is totaling different from most Easter dinners that we have had, but never the less turned out yummy.



Another recipe that I love to make every day is HAPPINESS-


Ingredients:

2 heaping cups of patience

1 heart full of love

2 hands full of generosity

1 head full of understanding

A dash of laughter



Directions:


Sprinkle generously with kindness. Add plenty of faith and mix well. Spread over a period of a lifetime and serve everyone you meet.



I posted an article on TUESDAY, MAY 15, 2012


WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HAPPY PEOPLE AND UNHAPPY PEOPLE?


Being happy is good for heart health and for these days of uncertainty.



What is the difference between happy people and unhappy people? Of course, it may be very obvious, happy people are happy while unhappy people are unhappy, right? Well, that is correct, but we want to know what are the things that these people do differently and that is why, I have put together a list of things that HAPPY people do differently than UNHAPPY people.


1. LOVE vs. FEAR. Well, I can tell you for sure that those people who are really happy, FEAR less and LOVE a lot more. They see each moment, each challenge, each person as an opportunity to discover more about themselves and the world around them.


2. ACCEPTANCE vs. RESISTANCE. Happy people understand that you can’t really change a situation by resisting it, but you can definitely change it by accepting that it is there and by understanding that there might be a reason for its existence. When something unpleasant happens to them, they don’t try to fight it, knowing that this will make the situation even worse, but rather, they ask themselves questions like: What can I learn from this? How can I make this better? and they go from there, focusing on the positive rather than on the negative. They always seem to see the glass half full no matter what happens to them.


3. FORGIVENESS vs. UNFORGIVENESS. Really happy people know that it’s not healthy to hold on to anger. They choose to FORGIVE and FORGET, understanding that FORGIVENESS is a gift they give to themselves first and foremost.


“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. “Buddha


4. TRUST vs. DOUBT. They trust themselves and they trust the people around them. No matter if they talk to the cleaning lady or the C.E.O. of a multi billion company, somehow, they always seem make the person they are interacting with feel like there is something unique and special about them.


They understand that beliefs become self-fulfilling prophecies, and because of that, they make sure to treat everybody with love, dignity and respect, making no distinctions between age, sex, social status, color, religion or race. These are the great men that Mark Twain was talking about: “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” Mark Twain


5. MEANING vs. AMBITION. They do the things they do because of the meaning it brings into their lives and because they get a sense of purpose by doing so. They understand that “Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life” like Wayne Dyer puts it, and they care more about living a life full of meaning rather than, what in our modern society we would call, living a successful life.


The irony here is that most of the time they get both, success and meaning, just because they choose to focus on doing the things, they love the most and they always pursue their heart desires. They are not motivated by money; they want to make a difference in the lives of those around them and in the world.


6. PRAISING vs. CRITICIZING. Happy people would probably agree with Carl’s Jung theory on resistance: “What you resist not only persists, but will grow in size”. They don’t criticize the absence of the behavior they want to reinforce, but rather, every time the behavior is present, even if it’s not that often, they know that by praising the person and the behavior, they will actually reinforce the positive behavior.


When a parent wants to make sure that his 7 years old boy will learn to always put the toys back in the box after he’s done playing with them, he will make sure not to focus on the many times the child won’t do it, criticizing him and his behavior, but rather, every time the little boy does put the toys back, the parent will praise him and his behavior and that is exactly how he will reinforce the positive behavior, and in the end getting the wanted results.


7. CHALLENGES vs. PROBLEMS. Happy people will see PROBLEMS as CHALLENGES, as opportunities to explore new ways of doing things, expressing their gratitude for them, understanding that underneath them all lies many opportunities that will allow them to expand and to grow.


8. SELFLESSNESS vs. SELFISHNESS. They do what they do not for themselves, but for the good of others, making sure that they bring meaning, empowerment and happiness in the lives of many. They look for ways to give and to share the best of themselves with the world and to make other people happy.


” Before giving, the mind of the giver is happy; while giving, the mind of the giver is made peaceful; and having given, the mind of the giver is uplifted. “Buddha


9. ABUNDANCE vs. LACK/POVERTY. They have an abundant mindset living a balanced life, achieving abundance in all areas of life.


10. DREAMING BIG vs. BEING REALISTIC. These people don’t really care about being realistic. They love and dare to dream big; they always listen to their heart and intuition and the greatness of their accomplishment’s scares many of us.


“Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.” Goethe


11. KINDNESS vs. CRUELTY. They are kind to themselves and others and they understand the power of self-love, self-forgiveness and self-acceptance.


12. GRATITUDE vs. INGRATITUDE. No matter where they look, no matter where they are or with who, they have this capacity of seeing beauty where most of us would only see ugliness, opportunities, where most of us would only see struggles, abundance where most of us would only see lack and they express their gratitude for them all.


13. PRESENCE/ ENGAGEMENT vs. DISENGAGEMENT. They know how to live in the present moment, appreciating what they have and where they are, while still having big dreams about the future.


“When you are present, you can allow the mind to be as it is without getting entangled in it. The mind in itself is a wonderful tool. Dysfunction sets in when you seek yourself in it and mistake it for who you are.” Eckhart Tolle


14. POSITIVITY vs. NEGATIVITY. No matter what happens to them, they always seem to keep a positive perspective on everything and by doing so, they tend irritate a lot of negative and “realistic” people.


15. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY vs. BLAMING. They take full ownership over their lives and they rarely use excuses. Happy people understand that the moment you choose to blame some outside forces for whatever it is that happens to you, you are in fact giving all your power away, and they choose to keep the power for themselves and taking responsibility for everything that happens to them.



Recipe of Happiness

I have been through a lot and have suffered a great deal. But I have had lots of... happy moments, as well. Every moment one lives is different from the other. The good, the bad, hardship, the joy, the tragedy, love, and happiness are all interwoven into one single, indescribable whole that is called life. You cannot separate the good from the bad. And perhaps there is no need to do so, either. Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨Ʒ♥ •. ¸¸.•


This morning as I rose from bed

and saw the sun above,

I softly said "Good Morning God,

bless everyone I love".

And right away I thought of you

and said a loving prayer

That He would bless you specially

and keep you free from care.

I thought of all the happiness

your day could hold in store;

And wished it all for you,

because no one deserves it more.

I felt so warm and good inside,

my heart was all aglow

I know God heard my prayer for you,

He hears them all you know.

Until tomorrow, enjoy the view.


Until tomorrow enjoy the view.



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