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LOVE IS AN UNCONDITIONAL COMMITMENT TO AN IMPERFECT PERSON. TO LOVE SOMEBODY ISN’T JUST A STRONG -

LOVE IS AN UNCONDITIONAL COMMITMENT TO AN IMPERFECT PERSON. TO LOVE SOMEBODY ISN’T JUST A STRONG FEELING. IT IS A DECISION, A JUDGEMENT AND A PROMISE.

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RECAPPING ON THE SERIES OF LOVE AND LIVING SUCCESSFULLY WITH SCREWED-UP PEOPLE FROM LAST WEEK. ALONG WITH HOW SAFE IS MEXICO FOR THE WEEK OF JULY 25th TO JULY 31ST.


Hello followers,


Not only is it Sunday, but it is a beginning of a new month. August is often called the Sunday of summer; the summer is ending and school is starting.

How Dan and I wish that the warmth of August could be stored in bottles. Then poured out on the cooler temperatures to come later in the year!


There are many ways to appreciate the last of the summer heat while it is present.


Keeping our organic homemade bug repellent handy, we can enjoy outdoor activities with our children and loved ones. Early morning or late evening walks, beach parties, cycling, theme parks, and barbecues with home-made ice cream at the end of the day come to both Dan’s and my mind.

So, stay tune this month for more of our adventures around Virginia.


Now to continue with the series on LOVE, you may find yourself wondering if there is a limit to love; what true love entails, and what is unconditional love in a relationship?

You may be giving your everything, you may find yourself wondering if there is a limit to love, what true love entails, and what is unconditional love in a relationship?


To someone who is making no sacrifices for you in your relationship or who does not appreciate your efforts and goes as far as to mistreat you.


Does true love mean giving your all and doing your best for someone regardless of how much they give back or is there a limit?

Before answering the question “what is unconditional love in a relationship?” you must first ask yourself what does unconditionally mean?


For something to be unconditional it means that it must be totally complete and not limited in any way. Another word for unconditionally can be unquestionably, wholeheartedly, and unlimited.


When it comes to love, love in its purest form is unconditional.

After having an understanding as to what unconditionally means, you might then begin to have an idea to your question, “what is unconditional love in a relationship?”


But what does it mean to love someone unconditionally

There is a clear difference between unconditional love as opposed to conditional love. When love is conditional, it has to be earned. This earning of said love is based on conditions beneficial to the one who is offering his or her love. On the other hand, when love is unconditional it is offered to a loved one freely and without conditions.


QUOTES ABOUT LIVING


LOVE

Looking for love can feel like searching for a missing piece of your heart.


You will keep looking for that one special person who will complete you until you finally realize that person is you. It’s better to share a full heart with another person, rather than one that has a piece missing that they can never fill.


Decide that your goal is to love your whole life.


Look at what’s preventing that from being true and what already allows it.


Plan for better days and work toward them.


Use yes and no more and more to reflect your true feelings, not what you think everyone wants to hear.

RECAPPING ON THE SERIES OF LOVE AND LIVING SUCCESSFULLY WITH SCREWED-UP PEOPLE FROM LAST WEEK. ALONG WITH HOW SAFE IS MEXICO FOR THE WEEK OF JULY 25th TO JULY 31ST.


Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.



To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.



Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.



We can do no great things; only small things with great love.



Love is the ultimate reality of this world, the strongest passion that can bring about miracles in life.



THE GREATEST GIFT THAT YOU CAN GIVE TO OTHERS IS THE GIFT OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE.



UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS OUR BIRTHRIGHT, NOT JUDGMENT OR CONDEMNATION, AND THERE’S NOTHING WE NEED TO DO TO EARN IT. THIS IS SIMPLY WHO AND WHAT WE ARE.


If you are interested in reading Dan’s and My Journey Through Cancer without Surgery, Chemo or Radiation, just click on the books for more information:


MY JOURNEY OF COMPLETION (Body, Heart and Soul) – Enjoy Life While Managing Cancer



CONTINUING THE SERIES ON HOW SAFE IS MEXICO?

Dan and I grabbed an opportunity nine years ago, when we took on the adventure and moved to Mexico. Back then, we didn’t know what to expect, except that both of us were alive and ready for a change. We had been going to Tijuana for cancer treatments and knew somewhat what we were heading into. We ended up living in the center of the country however; better for travel purposes and it was nothing like what we had thought about. To this date, we are back in the states living in Virginia and what we took from Mexico was friendships, culture and understanding of their ways of life.

WITH PICTURES

Through thousands of pictures that I took, Dan and I are showing how safe Mexico is. There is a saying ‘A picture is worth a thousand words’; this is so true! A picture tells a story just as well as, if not better than, a lot of written words.


"Chinese proverb. One picture is worth ten thousand words."

CLICK THROUGH SLIDE SHOW - ENJOY

So, we will be posting a gallery of pictures on each post, hopefully you will see each one has a story.

This is where we continue on the book: LIVING SUCCESSFULLY WITH SCREWED-UP PEOPLE, by Elizabeth B. Brown. Dan and I continue to share ways to benefit and help keep one’s health cells healthy. A wise man told me ten years ago, when one is in balance with themselves; one stays healthy.


For more information click on book



Today Dan and I will be continuing to post CHAPTER THREE – WHO IS SCREWED UP?

When relationships are a mess, the common drive of screwed-up people is for control.


They use whatever is necessary to get it; blame, guilt, shame.


The victim in the relationship becomes need to bowing, scraping, and begging as their self-esteem is damaged.


The screwed-up person is victimized also, as they become locked into self-destructive patterns of control.


Tomorrow we will be posting on stopping the march!

This is the time to get ready for food and remedies that heal; alchemy of herbs. In the coming week, Dan and I will be blogging the benefits of ROSEMARY. It’s amazing what and how rosemary can help keep your body healthy?

Rosemary health benefits includes promoting immune function, preventing indigestion, protecting the skin and nourishing the hair, providing protection to the brain, enhancing concentration and retention, preventing cancer and preventing macular degeneration.


Other benefits include providing support for the liver and lungs, providing relief from pain and promoting respiratory function.


Rosemary is a very popular plant, a perennial herb of the mint family that originates from the Mediterranean region. The Greeks used this plant to improve memory and stimulate brain function since it is rich in antioxidants that can help slow down or prevent oxidative damage to important cellular components. It is also very commonly used as a spice thanks to its unique flavor.

Presently, Rosemary is used to treat a number of health complications and can prove to be effective in replacing synthetic medications that offer a cure but may come with serious side effects.


Scientifically, Rosemary is known as Rosmarinus officinalis and is often found in gardens for its ornamental purposes, while its leaves are used as a flavoring agent.


More to come, stay tune.

NOTE AND REPEAT – PHRASE TO REMEMBER; Health is Wealth

THIS IS AN ENCLOSURE – will be at the end of all the blogs, for I stress; this daily routine will heal and keep your body cells happy.


As I end this blog, Dan and I for several years have shared our experiences with enjoying life while managing cancer. By keeping healthy, our routine daily has been walking (exercise), meditation (for stress), Qigong (exercise and for stress).

I know some will say they do not have enough time with work, kids and household chores!!!


Dan and I have put together videos from WALK AT HOME together on our website, that you can follow in home; when you have short periods of time and unable to go out. They are from 15 mins up to 30 mins depending on the miles. This is one of the first steps to making your cells happy!!


Also, meditation videos, help to lower stress and is also one of the first steps to making your cells happy; click on https://www.thejourneytogoodhealth.com/meditation


Again, they are no more than 10 to 20 mins and they are guided meditations.


Guided Meditation for Love/Relationship Healing Meditation **POWERFUL! **

Whether you just want a relaxation meditation to reconnect deeper with your amazing, and often forgotten, self or if you are wanting to reconnect with your loved ones in a way that will allow the vibration of your relationship to positively increase, allowing you to create a deeper, more connected bond at a profound cosmic level, this meditation is astonishing in its ability to change the vibration of your life and your relationships, bringing greater peace and harmony to even in the most tumultuous of circumstances.

Although your relationships may not magically change and everything will all of a sudden be perfect and amazing from now on once you practice this love meditation, I can tell you that if you do this meditation daily, or even just a few times each week, it will begin to change your relationships subtly, but powerfully.


This meditation as a self-love meditation has the powerful effect of dissolving self-sabotaging behavior and negative self-talk, building self-confidence and acceptance of both who you are and the unfolding of who you are becoming. You will stop getting in your own way and begin to take steps toward a journey of being who you truly want to be and doing the things you desperately wish to do in life.

This meditation as a means of healing relationships is equally powerful. Little by little you might notice arguments taking place less often, conflict losing its intensity, or the negative and angry feelings slowly fading away. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE HAS THE POWER TO CHANGE REALITY, even if it is only given and received on subtle levels. When you love and are loved unconditionally, the human potential becomes truly infinite!


It is my deepest desire that this meditation help you to feel greater love, peace and joy for your own amazing self as well as the incredible joy and beauty that only peaceful and loving relationships can add to one’s experience of this life.

REMEMBER: You are beautiful. You are amazing. Your life matters!


“Surrender is a gift that you can give yourself. It’s an act of faith. It’s saying that even though I can’t see where this river is flowing, I trust it will take me in the right direction.” ~ Debbie Ford

We are still working on Qigong video’s to be posted on the website for easy access, until now you can go to the blog https://www.thejourneytogoodhealth.com/blog and on the right-hand side are hash # tag words, just click on the word #walk #Qigong #meditation. The post will pop up and then you can begin. Have fun with it!


INDULGE IN A CONNECTION


Until Monday, when two givers indulge in a connection, it’s magic. It’s alchemy. I water you. You water me; we never drain each other. We just grow.

Dan and I wish all our viewers happiness and prosperity in this new month of August, where all your dreams will come true.

DAN AND I WELCOME ANY QUESTIONS OR COMMENTS.

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